Failure and Success, Good and bad experiences, and Sorrow – all these are a part of life. No one’s life is perfect; so sometimes you see happiness and some times you see the other side.
I have learnt from my experiences and strongly believe that whatever decisions we take is our choice but the resulting consequence is not our choice. So when we have made a choice and the resultant consequence, even if it turned out to be sour – the first thing to do is take responsibility for it.
The next step is to take out the good experience from it and trash the junk. Every experience in one’s life – be it good or bad, successful or failure definitely brings something good or put in other words – we need to find the gem in the dust and separate it.
From my experience in my career I have found that even if the result of your choice was a negative one, the right thing to do is to rise up, pick out the positive thoughts and experience from the incident and go at it with all new faith and optimism. Whatever happened has happened, but what happens next is our choice. The right way ahead is to seek the positive experience even from a negative incident. Only this way do we grow as a person and can we cross the bridge towards success.
Look forward to your thoughts!
– Raj Bokdia